Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Christmas cheer

this is our tree. It's attached to the ceiling because it has a balance problem. Honestly, we just gave it one drink...

Project Status:

Wood blocks- all sanded, and all but 1 set painted. That set is an extra, so it isn't urgent that I finish it before Christmas, except that I really want my dining room table back soon :)

Hats- 2 knit, 1 half-way done [finished by tonight for sure]
Scarves to match those hats- not even started :) that's an 'after-Christmas bonus present' at this point.

Towel Embroidery- finished, washed, and folded into neat packages.

Autumn Wall Hanging- I put this back into my 'unfinished projects' box. I'll pull it out in January :) maybe...

Tree Skirt- Sadly, I haven't even cut this out. It went into the 'unfinished projects' box as well. But it will be done by the end of January. That's the new goal anyway ;)

Baking- DONE. And enjoyed, and of course there is more to do, but that's for fun, not a deadline.

Books to Read- took several breaks from my non-fiction stack: some Georgette Heyer books, "The Blind Side" by Michael Lewis [good book!], and a Mercedes Lackey novel [another favorite author]. But mostly I've been knitting and sewing in my free time...

All the presents are made. All the presents for other people are wrapped and sent. My kids' presents are almost wrapped- there's a family gift that we won't be wrapping [too big], and 4 other gifts that will be set out 'naked' after bedtime Christmas Eve. But, I'm done. Whew!

All Christmas Cards are sent. At least I hope they are... :) If you read this and didn't get one [and if you actually care LOL] please email me your address [jgailey4 at hotmail dot com] and I'll send one out. I do have extras!

Last night I dragged the kids and my husband to see the movie "The Blind Side." It was good! Of course, with the late night, we all slept in this morning. It is the last day of school, but Morgen and Hyrum have chess club, so they had about 10 minutes to shower, dress, and eat breakfast. All I can say is thank goodness M doesn't do makeup yet!

Gratitude List:
* We're all healthy.
* Presents done!
* Tree still smells like pine :)
* Presents piling up under the tree, and my kids' excitement about Christmas coming.
* I'm excited, too LOL
* Snow- lots of snow- making this a wonderful white Christmas!
* Looking forward to family dinners.
* Celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ [I know He was born in April. I get that. But I'm still glad we can celebrate His birth at this time, and I don't think He minds if the date is a bit off.]
* Neighbors who come over and sing carols to us :)
* Fudge. I love fudge.
* My husband and kids.
* 4 wheel drive :)
* Dishwasher
* Clothes washer and dryer [can you imagine hanging your wash outside to "dry" in the wintertime? then bringing it frozen on the line back into the house to thaw out by the fire? Yeah. SO glad for my dryer.]
* Time to meditate in the mornings. Yes, I'm still doing this amid the holiday bustle. Totally worth the time, too.

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Let it snow...

Okay, that's enough! :) Monday we got about 14 inches, mostly during the daytime. Spent the rest of the week reminding myself how to drive [safely] in the snow. Last night it started snowing again, and we've gotten another 12 inches since then. Enough for a snow fort in the yard [back] and there's more than enough to build a snow town in our front yard [if somebody gets bored].

Thursday we got a quick visit from my in-laws. They drove up, slept at our house, then Jared and his dog took my FIL and HIS dog hunting pheasants on Friday. My MIL and I went out to eat, and discussed Christmas stuff, and listened to Christmas music. Then we went and got my kids from school, had a snack [kids], and drove down to visit Nate and Caitlin. We ate dinner at Buco di Beppa, a wonderfully noisy Italian restaurant, with delicious food that they serve family style. :) And since it is already noisy, when I bring my three noisy children, they fit right in!

Saturday the boys went to the Dinosaur Museum, and the girls [including Morgen] went shopping for: fabric, old stuff [at this awesome junky store that has lots of cool treasures if you look hard], and new paint for our toes. We decided the pedicure was a nice treat after all that walking around :)

Oh, and today, despite the many inches of snow on the ground, Morgen wore her sandals WITHOUT socks to church. I wondered [snow, cold, bare toes], but she is old enough to know better, and I refuse to nag her about things that won't be fatal. Halfway to church I realized that her motivation was to show off those fancy new toes, with the little glitter flowers painted onto her big toenails. Fancy! And now I understand. :)

Having the Carrot and Squash Curry Soup again today, along with my stand-by bread recipe with rosemary added, made into rolls, and a Caesar Salad. :) Perfect cold weather meal.

Gratitude List:
* Good music.
* Cough medicine [not for me].
* Sunday naps [also not for me].
* That Jared is hardly ever sick :) and when he is, he just gets quiet and sleepy.
* Lots of snow, and lots of imagination to help us know what to do with it.
* Good food :)
* 4 wheel drive
* God
* My family, friends, and neighbors

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Full of it

Thanks, I mean :). We had a wonderful Thanksgiving dinner. All the best family traditions were present: someone raided the rolls before dinner, squealing baby noises [they took turns], bloody mashed potatoes [cranberry sauce is awesome!], guys played Risk, way too much food, several delicious pies, oh, and we got to terrorize a possible family member [my sister's date].

We like to play games when we aren't eating. Some favorites are Ticket to Ride, Bohnanza, Shadows Over Camelot [except when we have to cheat to win and the game gets really REALLY long], and Snorta. My brother brought a new game- Curses- and it was a huge hit with the kids :) I have one thing to say: Ye're always after me lucky charms! hee hee

I'm so grateful for my family!

Gratitude List:
* Pies. I was going to list them individually, but restrained myself.
* Dad and Mom- they are both wonderful people and I'm glad to be descended from them.
* Brothers and Sisters. :) Especially younger ones who aren't married and can be tricked into bringing dates to dinner LOL.
* Frisbee games
* Soccer games
* Board games
* Football games
* Other people's cooking [thank you mom!]
* knitting projects
* Audio books that make an hour-long drive a peaceful and calm experience.
* Babies to hold, and return to their own parents when they begin to cry. :)
* Peppermint Ice Cream and Brownies with Homemade Chocolate Sauce for Monkey's birthday party [and a niece with a monkey who NEEDS to have a birthday party].
* That I have so very much to be grateful for.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

The deadline approaches...

Yes, and my kitchen table has crafts piled up on it, waiting patiently for me to stop reading blogs [and adding new crafts to my list of things to do], and actually finish making them.

:) Wood to sand, blocks need a pattern traced and painted, hats to knit, scarves to match hats [also to knit], some embroidery of towels, that adorable autumn [!!] wall hanging I need to finish, a tree skirt to quilt [I've decided the length of unhemmed fabric wrapped around the tree trunk is lazy and this year is the year I will replace it], baking- lots of baking- cookies and other fattening things, oh, and I've added a few books to my "read this" list. Ummm, anybody know any elves with nothing to do? Or failing that, a nice person who will clean my house and fix dinners for me so I can really focus on finishing up this to-do-list?

No? *sigh* Fine.

On the bright side, one set of Christmas presents is completely finished. Not wrapped [yet], but they will be soon.

I am so very grateful that I am not in charge of cooking the turkey this year! And I'm very thankful that my mother is a wonderful cook, and that she is willing to invite us over to her house for Thanksgiving dinner. I counted, and she'll have 22 people over this year. That's 2 grandparents, 6 kids, 4 spouses, and 10 grandchildren. Wow. And [this is the slightly scary part] we're still missing 1 kid, 1 spouse, and 3 grandkids.

Gratitude List:
* walks with Jared. Even when it's chilly out and my mittens are scratchy.
* warm woolen mittens :)
* knitting quick projects [like hats] as opposed to long ones [like baby blankets]
* central heat
* tuna noodle casserole [comfort food at its best] because it reminds me of my dad. Every time my mom had to go somewhere around dinnertime, he would make us this. It is one of my favorite dishes :)
* the magic loop [it's a knitting thing, and it really is magic. Trust me.]
* family gatherings
* good food.
* pies [they are good, but not good for you, so they need their own separate category.]
* There is a special holiday just for being grateful. That absolutely rocks!
* freedom [of speech, to bear arms, of religion, to vote... this country allows me so much freedom and I am truly thankful of this blessing.]
* Faith. Hope. Charity. Prayer. God. Jesus Christ. Atonement. Love.
* books
* ipod for music and podcasts.
* waiting until after Thanksgiving to turn on Christmas music. The anticipation makes it even more special :)
* we have plenty- more than enough for ourselves and to share.
* opportunities to give.
* hot cocoa.
* friends.

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Hay Rides

Dragged the kids to a primary activity [church group for kids 3-12] today. It was snowing, just the fat fluffy flakes that sort of drift down slowly, and we were sitting on hay bales stacked into the back of an open trailer pulled by a diesel truck. It was awesome :). We brought fruit and vegetables [or nothing if we forgot LOL], and made up 12 bags to deliver to people in the neighborhood. Then we all [parents, teachers, and children] hopped onto the trailer and sang holiday songs while we slowly drove around and delivered them all. Some of the songs weren't very holiday-like [911-away, for example], but it was pretty awesome to see the kids' faces when they got to sing our made-up thanksgiving song to each recipient. They'd race up to the door, thrust the bag into the person's hands, belt out the song, and race back to the trailer.

So, my reading list:
John Adams -David McCullough
Already posted about this book- absolutely worth the time it took me to read it. I'm a pretty fast reader, so working on this book got frustrating, especially since I had a list of books I wanted to read and I wouldn't let myself start any of the non-fiction ones until I finished this one. I'm looking forward to watching the HBO movie when it comes from Netflix.

The Go-Getter -Peter B Kyne
This is a very short book, and currently out of print. I ordered it through Dave Ramsey's website, because they keep this book in their shop. Very good, very thought-provoking, and one I'll be reading to my kids soon.

Glenn Beck's Common Sense
I wasn't sure if I would like this or not. Mostly because I'm not sure about whether I can agree with too much of what Glenn Beck says. [i.e. his support of the gold standard, which has not been used as a foundation for economics since the fall of the Roman Empire. If the world is really coming to an end, I'm going to stockpile food, water, and ammunition for the many guns my husband owns. Oh, and yarn :). I'll be stockpiling a lot of yarn.] He has a valid point, though, and I really appreciated the copy of Thomas Paine's Common Sense that was included in the appendix of the book. I do need to be more involved in what my representatives in Congress are doing. I do need to be aware that my freedoms are at risk whenever a politician gets a brilliant [or not] idea. So, overall, worth the hour it took to read it.

Handmade Home -Amanda Blake Soule
Wonderful [and sometimes weird] ideas for re-using fabric and other supplies around my house to create new things for my loved ones. I got a lot of good ideas, and I'm adding ideas to my list of projects.

Boundaries -Cloud and Townsend
Read this once before, and I was grateful for the reminder. I feel like I have pretty healthy boundaries, but getting a reminder of where the lines should be drawn is always nice. Since I got a bit carried away with volunteer work this year, I am making notes for myself for next year. :)

Tribes -Seth Godin
Another short read, and this author is a genius marketing guy. Very common-sense stuff about leadership. Looking for his other books [Purple Cow and Permission Marketing] just because I enjoyed this one so much.

The Last Lecture -Randy Pausch
Major tear-jerker. Lots of good advice. Quick, but intense, read.

Scratch Beginnings -Adam Shepard
AWESOME. This book needs to be taught to each and every person who is currently looking for a job [because they're unemployed, or don't like their job]. Basically, Adam decided to see if "The American Dream" still existed in modern America. He took $25, the clothes on his back, a duffle, and a sleeping bag, and took a train to a city he'd never been to before. He wasn't allowed to use his college education, any of his assets, or any contacts he already had. His goal was, at the end of a year, to have $2500 in savings, a car that reliably worked, and a furnished apartment [with or without a roommate]. He made it, and his story was a wake-up call to me.

We're also listening to The Mysterious Benedict Society audiobook. Very amusing :) and the kids are begging to go somewhere- anywhere- so they can listen to the end of it.

And, I've updated my list, on the sidebar, of books I'm reading. Well, actually, it isn't all the books I'm reading. That would be too long. The list is just the non-fiction books, or the really REALLY good fiction ones.

Gratitude List:

* Snow. Part of the blessing [or curse] of living in a mountain valley is that we'll get a lot of snow every winter. I am excited about this :)
* Kids who are old enough and strong enough to shovel snow. Probably this is why I'm so excited about the snow LOL.
* Books. I have so many of them, and access to so many more. Truly a blessing- knowledge is power, after all.
* I can vote, and I did vote. My voice counts. Plus, since I participated, I have the right to complain about the people I voted for :).
* Hot chocolate on cold days. Mmmmm.
* Cookies anytime. Really, you can't go wrong with cookies. Unless you leave out the chocolate chips...
* This recipe for Carrot and Squash Curry Soup. Yummy with homemade wheat bread. Or storebought wheat bread. Whatever ;)
* We have enough for ourselves, and plenty to spare.
* Showing my kids that giving to others will bless and enrich their own lives.
* My husband is home the rest of the year!!! [except for the hunting and fishing trips...]
* Rearranging furniture is almost as much fun as buying new furniture. Bonus: it is completely free, which is not true about buying new stuff, alas.
* I'm making cards again, after taking a break for a few months. Hobbies are only hobbies if they're for fun.
* Knitting a beautiful, soft, blue blanket. Not sure I want to give it away at this point LOL.
* Getting excited for Thanksgiving dinner with some of my family. Wish they could all come, but I'm thinking that 2 parents plus 5 out of 7 kids is a pretty good turnout.
* Family.
* Friends.
* Neighbors.
* God. He is so good to me.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

How to stay busy

I think I got a little excited about all the "free time" I would enjoy once my kids started public school :). I'm working with a local animal shelter, and helping in the schools 2 times a week, and trying to catch up on housework and crafts that I put off much longer than I meant to. But, in my vast amount of free time, I've also been tackling the huge stack of non-fiction books that I would like to read.

John Adams, by David McCullough, has been at the top of that list for about 2 years, and I finally finished it Friday night. I find myself incredibly amazed and humbled by reading about this man. He was flawed, yes; and yet he managed to accomplish so very much, and was aware of his faults and constantly trying to overcome them. But my favorite part of the book came after he'd finished his term as the 2nd President of the United States. He retired to a farm that he and Abigail had bought and she had primarily run during his long years of service to his country. They both retained a sharp interest in politics, but he never again served in a public office. And his last years are a witness that he really did practice what he preached: that a man be not dependent on public service for his income. When he died, he left a sizeable estate to his children and grandchildren. While he was acting as Vice President to George Washington, he wrote to his son Thomas,

"Public business, my son, must always be done by somebody. It will be done by somebody or other. If wise men decline it, others will not; if honest men refuse it, others will not. A young man should weigh well his plans. Integrity should be preserved in all events, as essential to his happiness, through every stage of his existence. His first maxim then should be to place his honor out of reach of all men. In order to do this he must make it a rule never to become dependent on public employments for subsistence. Let him have a trade, a profession, a farm, a shop, something where he can honestly live, and then he may engage in public affairs, if invited, upon independent principles. My advice to my children is to maintain an independent character."

I wish that more of our "public servants" had this as a personal goal. I think that the longer a person serves in Washington, the more out-of-touch and corrupted he/she becomes. I can honestly say that, while I appreciate those men and women who serve well, I am becoming convinced that term limits should be applied to each and every person who serves in any way in my government. I need them to be more accountable to me as a voter, and I need them NOT to become career politicians. I don't believe the government will solve all my problems. I believe it is a necessary evil, and should be kept as small and weak as possible. I've decided that I cannot continue to be a Democrat [and I won't become a Republican either], because while they talk a good talk, they do not follow through on their promises. I'll be closely examining each candidate and voting for the ones that show integrity in their personal lives, regardless of which party they are affiliated with.

Okay, that's enough of the political stuff :). 2 weeks ago my kids had a 2-day break from school, and we all [Jared took time off] made a quick trip to Denver, Colorado to tour the US Mint. Here's a picture of us after the tour, since they don't allow pictures inside the building itself:

We went to the Denver Children's Museum, and let the kids run around and explore for a few hours. Morgen spent some time dancing in the theater, and quite a bit of time in the veterinarian room playing vet with the stuffed animals, but most of her time was spent in the art room, painting:

Hyrum played all over, but spent the most time shooting baskets in the basketball court. There was a button that he pushed to make the big blaring sound to end each quarter, just like in real basketball games. He liked playing "horse" and "pig" on the courts:

I wasn't sure that Walker could find anything he would enjoy doing, but he proved me wrong. He and Jared spent over an hour building an extensive, looping railroad track that bridged several of the tables in that room. Here's a picture of the beginning stages of the track:

Here are my two engineers, discussing where to put the next piece of track:

While I was in the vet room with Morgen, a lady said my name. I looked at her, and realized I knew her [Kristen Weed]- totally a surprise, since I had no idea she lived in Denver! She's a few years younger than I am, and her parents lived down the street from my parents while they were in Nevada. She actually knows my husband as well :). We chatted for a little bit, then she headed back home. But wow- random and fun to see her!

We drove through Laramie, and toured the Governor's Mansion there. Did you know that Wyoming was the first state to give women the right to vote? And, it was the first state to elect a woman as governor: Nellie Tayloe Ross. She went on to become the director of the US Mint, serving in that position from 1933-1953. [Texans elected a woman governor the same year, but Nellie was inaugurated first :)]

We cannot go on any family outing without including some sort of outdoor activity. This is the Ames Monument, built to honor 2 brothers who helped bring the railroad to this part of the country.

Of course, we couldn't just walk around it. Some of us saw this as a challenge, and decided to climb it!

Jared took off today after church, and he'll be in Reno through the end of the week. I'm hoping he makes it back in time for trick-or-treating :)

Gratitude List:
* Freedom of Speech. I am so grateful that I have the right to openly state my opinions and know that I cannot be arrested for thinking differently than my government officials do.
* Jared got to stay for church, and help me with our sunday school class, as they put on a little program for the rest of the kids.
* Beautiful fall leaves, and cool fall weather.
* We have the money to replace the sliding glass door panel that was shattered when the person who was weed-whacking the lawn shot a rock into it by accident.
* Nobody was hurt by the shattered glass :) because the plastic film kept the pieces together. Oh, and we got a good lesson in how glass fractures :) It's incredibly cool to watch and hear the glass cracking. Expensive, but cool!
* I have 3 healthy kids.
* I have good family, and good friends.
* homemade chocolate cake with chocolate icing. Mmmmm!
* Good music.
* time [even if it's only 10 minutes] to read books.
* My husband has a good job, and we are financially stable.
* God is mindful of me, and blesses me according to my needs.

Thursday, October 08, 2009

Money-saving tips

So, last Saturday, Jared got an elk! He bought a tag for a spike [young male] elk, and was drawn out for a cow elk as well.

**don't worry- elk have their babies in the spring, and by fall the calves are weaned and ready to be on their own. if the cow elk he shot did have a baby, it is plenty old enough to feed itself.**

Anyway, he gutted it where he shot it, then brought the carcass home, and skinned it in the garage. He packed the inside of the animal with ice, rolled it up in a tarp, and stored it in the garage until he got a chance to butcher it and wrap up the meat. Tonight was spent grinding up the tougher cuts of meat to make elk burger and elk sausage. And, since elk is a very lean meat [and if you try to fry ground elk, you will end up with charcoal], he ground up some bacon to mix into the elk so we could fry it and eat the results. We now have a freezer full of arm and rump roasts, steaks, ground elk burger, and elk sausage. If you don't factor in the rifle, ammunition, and frustration from previous unsuccessful hunts [ha ha ha], we ended up with 150 pounds of meat for $35- the price of the tag.

On a completely unrelated topic, Morgen and Hyrum are enjoying their soccer games. M's team has not won any games, but they are getting much better at defense :). H's team has won every game but one, and H is improving- he will mostly watch the ball now, instead of playing with the net or laying on the grass and counting bugs. Walker has grown again- his head is level with my eyes. I taught another art class today at his school [it's once a month, all day long], and took him out for lunch. We were walking down the hall, and I looked over at him, and suddenly felt very short. When did this happen?! He was just a little squirt a few days ago...

Gratitude List:
* Good books- too many, actually- that are sitting on my dresser waiting for me to read them.
* A steady income, and a husband who enjoys his job.
* We are debt-free!!! [I know I already shared this, but every day I get excited about it all over again ;)]
* Jared is back home! [except for when he's out hunting elk]
* Podcasts of my church's semiannual general conference, so I can listen to uplifting messages wherever I am.
* My faith in God, and His Son, Jesus Christ.
* A freezer filled completely full of meat.
* 3 healthy kids I get to raise.
* Jared knows how to fix leaky washer hoses. Even when the leaks are because somebody poked them with a thumb tack.
* Wonderful friends who are loving and supportive.
* My new neighborhood is a beautiful place, even with the snow we've gotten over the last week.
* My family
* Jared

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Mourning

This video described almost exactly my personal feelings about my own grief, and also gave a great description of what another person can do to comfort someone when they mourn.
Mourning

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Wow, 2 posts in a row!

But this post is a very short one, just to celebrate the payment of our very last debt.


WE ARE COMPLETELY DEBT-FREE!!!!! [picture me shouting and dancing around our living room]

** Paid the credit cards off, after Jared finished college and got a "real job". [2005]

** Paid off our Durango loan [2006]

** Paid off our Ford loan [2008]

** Sold our house in Kearns, for a profit, and paid off our mortgage. And we are currently renting, so we have no mortgage right now! [2009]

** Paid off our student loan IN FULL [12:47 pm on 15 September 2009]

Oh I want to throw a party!

hmmm, maybe I will...

Saturday, September 12, 2009

tagged

My friend Kristina tagged me LOL, and since I haven't posted in almost a month [oops!] I thought this would be a good kick-start for me.

The rules are that I must post 7 things about myself. Completely random things. Here goes:

1. I'm reading all our Louis L'Amour books again. Because I can, and because I found them when I unpacked one of the five [now four] boxes we had left in the basement.

2. I can finally say I don't bite my nails. I've been trying to break that habit for about 25 years now :)

3. I enjoy teaching the art class I volunteered for at Walker's junior high. Not that I'm an artist by any means- I'm more of a planned project presenter. But it's still a lot of fun!

4. I recently discovered that jump-roping is a great exercise. And a great excuse to act like a kid again!

5. I still miss my Myles. I don't think that will ever stop.

6. Our Kachina dog has chewed pretty close to every single thing she can get her teeth into. I'm beginning to think she has an obsessive-compulsive thing going on, with all the chewing and digging.

7. I like the cool evenings we enjoy up here in the Heber Valley. The kind where you need a warm flannel shirt and a fire to keep you comfortable outside. And if you also get to enjoy some s'mores, well, you're extra lucky ;)

Kids are back in school, and we all think this is a good thing. Walker's playing trumpet [thanks to my sister Joy and my parents who let us borrow Joy's trumpet]. He has been pretty good about practicing, and I think he's actually enjoying himself. Thank goodness for that!

Morgen's teacher has 4 pets in his classroom: a tarantula, a gecko, a snake, and a fish. Morgen thinks she's died and gone to heaven. She got to hold the gecko last week and that was the highlight of her day!

Hyrum loves his teacher and his classroom friends. He's quite social and has made a bunch of friends, but he's having a bit of trouble with the whole 'do what the teacher asks you to, and not whatever you would like to do' thing. Luckily, he is a sweet kid, and is trying his best.

Today we bought soccer cleats for M and H because they're signed up to play soccer this fall. 8 games, 2 per week, so we'll only be running around for 4 weeks, but both M and H are looking forward to their first game on Tuesday.

Jared's still in Pennsylvania. This trip has been hard- 4 weeks total that he'll be away- but with the kids in public school, and the projects we've been working on, I think we're handling it okay. It is hard, though, because we all miss him terribly.

Gratitude List:
* I love our neighborhood, and the friends I am making here.
* Email and the internet to keep me connected with my old friends :)
* Texts from Jared, whenever he's bored in class.
* The mountains. The trees on them are beginning to change colors, and it's a breath-taking sight.
* Time to volunteer at the schools my kids attend.
* We have shelter, food, and clothing.
* We are SO close to being completely debt-free!!
* Ice cream :)
* My family and Jared's.
* God
* This beautiful world I live in.

Monday, August 24, 2009

An unexpected experience

Heber has been really good for reuniting us with old [as in we knew them when we were young and less wrinkly] friends. In June, I was shopping in the grocery store, and saw my best friend [from high school] Aleeca's mom in the store. No, she doesn't live in Heber, but she happened to be at that store on that day, and I was able to get Aleeca's phone number and re-establish contact with her.

About 2 weeks ago, Jared and I were on a date [shocking, I know], and noticed a man who looked a lot like the guy Jared used to go fishing with when we lived in Provo [about 10 years ago, now]. Sure enough, when he turned around, it was Jeff! We exchanged phone numbers, and arranged to go boating with him and his family last Saturday. :)Although the water was pretty cold [we are, after all, in the mountains], riding the tube was awesome. My kids were pretty excited about it, and pretty good sports about being flipped- Jeff doesn't believe in letting you relax on that tube.

Jared:

M and Jeff's boy riding tandem:

I had an unfortunate picture uploading experience, and lost about 50 pics. Now, most of those were either too blurry or too far away to tell who was in the picture, but there were a few I really wanted! Anyway, we stayed 'till dark, then I took all the kids back to our car and we listened to a book on CD while the other 3 grown-ups got the boat out of the water and hitched up to their vehicle. We were all pretty tired and sore come Sunday, but oh, we had a great time!

Okay, time to change subjects. W loves to get the mail, and today he got a letter addressed to him. M and H got letters, too. They were from the Utah State Fair, and each one contained a one-day pass to the fair, a coupon for a drink, another one for a carnival ride, plus a sparkly blue ribbon to congratulate them on being "a Read and Win Winner." They each had to read 10 books, and have a parent or teacher sign the form confirming that they read their books. W and M breezed through their 10 books in a week. H worked on his, and he read each one out loud to me :) Great job, buddy! They've been waiting and waiting and WAITING [not very patiently, some days] for these prizes to come.

Today, we bought new sheets for M's new bed. It's only her bed until we get visitors, then it becomes the guest bed :), but she's thrilled with it. Jared picked up the mattress and box springs on Saturday, but we had no full-sized sheets, so the bed sat in its plastic cover 'till today. That was about all the disorder I could stand :), so I set up the bed, knowing I'd have to find sheets to cover it before tonight. One more thing to check off my to-do list!

We took the kids out to the North Fields again tonight, and I cooked tinfoil dinners [hamburger patty, onion for flavor, sliced carrots and potatoes, all with butter] on the coals while Jared and the kids either read [W], or caught bugs [M], or whacked thistles with a willow wand "sword" [H]. I sat and knit, and enjoyed the cool evening silence. M came back from the river with some flowers she picked just for me, and a song she made up to accompany the gift. She can be such a sweetheart :) which absolutely makes up for when she isn't. We also had s'mores, except without graham crackers, since I forgot them. But who needs graham crackers when you can have chocolate and marshmallows?!?

One more thing: This year, to celebrate Myles' birthday, we're taking a donation of new clothing to the LDS Humanitarian Aid Center. While we don't expect participation from anybody, if you are interested, we would be honored.
*if you click on the above link, you'll go to the home page of LDS Humanitarian Services. the sidebar on the right of the page has several topics; click on "current needs" under "resources" to see what they have enough of as well as what they need more of. there are also patterns for the humanitarian kits available under "resources," most in .pdf format.

Gratitude List:
* NO NEW FIRES!!!!!
* Another chance to spend time outdoors with my family.
* Allergy shots that seem to be working :)
* Finding old friends.
* Jared's sense of humor to remind me that most things aren't as serious as I may believe.
* 3 beautiful, healthy children that I can see every day.
* 1 beautiful angel boy that I will see again someday.
* Music.
* Fresh, steamed squash from our garden [and my FIL's garden], served with butter and a bit of salt. YUMMY.
* School starts next Tuesday. :) and there was much rejoicing.
* Meditation time in the morning.
* I am so grateful that death is not the end; that I will see all the people I love again.
* There are some trees on the mountain outside my living room window that are changing colors. Beautiful.

And yes, I am still planning to post pics of my new haircut. Really. I'm just waiting for a copy of the family pics we took 2 weeks ago. Promise.

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Some pics from last Monday's photo shoot

Our photographer [whose link is HERE], posted a few of the multitude of photos she took. Hyrum is up- here's his pic:

If you go to the site, you'll see pictures of [in order from top to bottom]:
Hyrum
Saxon & Bridger w/their mom's legs ;)
Saxon
Zachary
Kaylyn [Zach's big sister]
and Cal & Carson w/their parents' legs

Saxon, Zach, and Carson are 3 of the 4 boys that were born the same year as Myles. I love to watch them playing, exploring and poking into everything.

What to do

With Jared gone till Thursday night, I've been looking for things for my kids to do. Things that involve little to no arguing or fighting, specifically. I'm thinking I need to drop them off on the mountain and pick them up at the bottom, maybe. Give them a chance to get out a bunch of their wiggles and destructive energy.

Seriously, though, we are all ready for a change. Monday we went into Park City to pick up some school things- backpacks, lunch boxes, some shoes and clothing, and paper and pencils. I like having them try their clothes on, simply because they grow so quickly that I have a hard time keeping up with their sizes. But it made for a pretty long day. We were all a bit grumpy by dinnertime.

We have a visitor coming today [hi Mom!], and tomorrow we're going for a hike with Morgen's youth group. I'm still working on that darn quilt. I got it almost finished, but with the kids still home, I find too many other things that need to be done. Still, if I can get it tied by Friday, maybe I'll have the time to bind it next week. I keep telling myself "baby steps!"

School starts September 1st. I am excited to meet their teachers, and see where they'll be spending most of their time during the school year. I'm also thinking I will miss them a lot, and that I can get so much done while they're at school LOL.

Gratitude List:
* My family. I love getting random phone calls from a sister, just to talk ;)
* Jared's commitment to serving our country. I am so proud of you, babe!
* My kids got all their chores done by 11am today.
* Internet access :)
* Meditation time
* Exercise is good for my soul
* We have enough [too much, actually] to eat, a home to shelter us, cars that run and are paid for [YES!], lots of clothes to wear; we are truly blessed.
* God is mindful of me and my challenges.
* my ipod, and instant access to music :)

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Catching up again

Seems that I'm always blogging about stuff we did last week, instead of getting it up the day after. Summer is so busy, though. Our last two weeks have been filled with family activities, resulting in tired and grumpy kids, which eventually resulted in grumpy parents LOL.

Tuesday last week we celebrated my nephew Bridger's birthday. Saxon [Bridger's big brother] and Hyrum convinced Jared to dogpile Walker and tickle him, while they were waiting for cake. I don't get the whole rough-and-tumble playing, but I could tell from the giggles and shouts of laughter that all the guys [big and little] were having a great time!

Morgen wanted to play with Bridger the whole time- peek-a-boo while he was eating, and pulling him around the pool in a raft later on.

This past week, we had a lot of excitement at home. Last Saturday, we were headed over to Midway for a family reunion w/my grandpa's family. On our way out the door, we discovered that an unidentified child [I think I know who it was, but since there were no witnesses, I cannot be certain...] had taken a birthday candle and some matches, and had melted the wires going into the downstairs light switch. This one light switch works all the downstairs lights, so we were without light for a few days. I was pretty upset- electrical fires are scary! Jared actually got angry enough to threaten them with a spanking [and Jared NEVER loses his temper]. So, we had power, but not to any of the lights. Lucky for the kids that we had to leave, and so they got a stern lecture but no grounding or extra chores.

Sunday was Church, and hanging with family time. Monday we got together with all Jared's siblings, their families, and his parents, and had pictures taken at a beautiful park near the Good Shepherd Lutheran Church in Park City. There was an awesome willow tree- I'm guessing 60 or so years old from its size- that the kids were swarming like monkeys, when they weren't needed for photos. I'll post a picture as soon as I get one :)

Tuesday we hiked up to Timpanogos Cave. It's a steep 1 1/2 mile hike up, then about an hour tour through the cave itself, and another 1 1/2 mile hike back down to the base of the mountain. Not too bad, if you have the time to rest, because the altitude change makes it hard to breathe easily. Jared was at work, but the kids and I made it up to the top. Caves never fail to amaze me- the stalactites and stalagmites, the helictites that look like curly spaghetti noodles- and they take hundreds of years to form! Wow.

Friday, Morgen and I met Melinda and Colleen for a pedicure date. We had a wonderful pampering session. Mom ended up with gel nails on her toes [I had no idea they did fake toe-nails!], and got some sparkly powder layered over the top of the polish. Melinda's polish was also sparkly, and so was Morgen's. Mine wasn't sparkly, but I still liked it :) Here's a pic of our feet- Morgen's got the tanned toes with sparkly turquoise polish :) She inherited her dad's olive-toned, gorgeous skin.

Friday night we went out to dinner to celebrate my BIL Nate's birthday, and Saxon's birthday at the end of the month. Hyrum and Saxon were two wild boys! Walker blew on Bridger's tummy, and got some great big giggles from him.

Morgen went with her Grandpa on Saturday morning, to help him clean out the fridge of the condo they stayed in while they were visiting last week. While she was gone, we discovered the remains of another fire in the basement. Again, I have no eyewitnesses, but I am pretty sure which boy was responsible. Sadly, when Jared got back from mowing weeds, the boys experienced "the wrath of dad." I am hoping that my fire-happy son will abandon his hot little experiments. Otherwise, I'm tempted to make him a fire-resistant, concrete cell in the backyard. *sigh* Why is parenting so hard?!?

Saturday night we drove over to Rockport and met up with some friends of ours. We had a nice dutch-oven dinner, then the kids went fishing for crawdads. It got pretty chilly- 50 degrees or so- but when we camp in the mountains, we expect cooler temps at night. I think we're already headed into fall, because this morning I found frost on the grass in our backyard. :) All I ask is a few good, ripe tomatoes before the plants die.

Gratitude List:
* Our house did not burn down, despite my child's attempts to start an electrical fire in the basement.
* The wires were relatively easy to fix [thank you honey!]
* Lots and lots of good family time.
* Pedicures :)
* Wonderful cool weather.
* Plenty of rain this week.
* Yummy food to eat, and playing some pretty funny games with Jared's siblings.
* Playing with my nieces and nephews. I wish, so much, that Myles could jump in and play with his cousins. But, it eases my heart a little to see his 4 cousins who were born the same year he was. They are running, climbing, playing, and fighting with each other. And my kids spent a lot of time playing with these boys.
* I am glad that my family still talks about Myles. I don't want him to ever be forgotten.
* God. Everything I am, everything I have is because of His love and blessings in my life.

Saturday, August 08, 2009

Our recent life

We've been to an awful lot of family gatherings lately- reunions, birthdays, etc. And, while I have a lot of pictures to prove we were there, I also have a few more family gatherings to attend, which prevents me from uploading all those pics right now. But, because I really need to do this before I forget, I'm posting a link to the most wonderfully fabulous pasta dish that I found through a friend of a friend.

The recipe is here- scroll down to the "quick yet yummy pasta" posted 9 July 2009: Follow Your Bliss
And if you have time, try out the other recipes listed. I have yet to read one that does NOT sound absolutely delicious. :)

More family togetherness photos coming soon!

Gratitude List:
* family, and the time to spend with them.
* God
* good food
* meditation time
* Jared and our kids

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Picture-heavy post coming up

So, the camping thing turned out differently than I expected. My allergies are still pretty bad, so instead of sleeping in the tent, I came home every night and slept in my bed. I know, what a baby, right?!?
Here's the camping setup:
We had too many tents- Walker brought his tent up, and he slept by himself. His is the little greenish-blue one on the right. The big tent in the middle was for Jared and I, but Hyrum ended up in there too. Oh, and all the food was in there as well, to keep it out of the rain. Did I mention it rained a few times? Yep. And I had to sleep in my bed. Darn it. Then the dog kennel, which we put Kachina in when it was raining, or when the bull was close by. Okay, the green dome tent on the left was for Morgen and Hyrum, but Morgen got it to herself after Hyrum went and slept in Jared's tent with him. So, just to recap: 3 tents, 4 people, 1 kennel and 1 dog. Plus some cows, steers, calves, and one bull.
This is part of the pasture we camped in. Those trees are HUGE, and old, and there's an old plow stored under one of them that the kids like to climb on. They sit in the tractor seat and pull levers, pretending to drive it around.
The tree on the other end of the row [far away from the old plow to prevent accidents] has a nice swing in it. Jared threw a rope over one of the highest branches, so the swing has a huge arc. But it never gets too far off the ground which makes it safe for the little kids. Our kids fight over who opens the gate into the pasture, because the gate-opener gets the first turn on the swing ;)
On the east side of the pasture there's a little creek to splash in, and my kids tried to catch minnows and waterbugs this year. They also played in the mud and made dams with rocks, and completely soaked themselves. And, Walker lost a shoe in the creek. It happens every year- Morgen lost a shoe last year- but so far they've been the cheap flip-flops, so I'm not too upset.
My mom's cousin has some cows in the back half of the pasture, and Morgen spent almost an hour coaxing one up so she could feed it out of her hand. :) She also spent a lot of time chasing the cows out of the picnic area. Thankfully she was smart enough to wait for the bull to leave before chasing the rest of the cattle! You can just see her purple jacket in this picture.
Hyrum raided the woodpile for weapons. This is his bow and arrow. Notice that the bow is unstrung. That's because Hyrum's most powerful weapon is his imagination :)

Morgen's got a pet grasshopper: Peppermint. She pulled its back legs off accidentally when she first caught it. She brought it with her in a jar, and gave it different grasses and leaves to see what it liked best. My favorite part was when she set the grasshopper down on the table and told it to stay. It did. Probably because it is impossible to hop away if your back legs are missing...
Walker spent a lot of time playing with the fire. I ruined his fun by banning him from further fire play. Then he rearranged camp- moving logs and rocks around until he was satisfied with their placement. He takes after his daddy- can't sit still if you paid him!
I came back one morning to find this on the picnic table:
There was a wasp's nest between the leg supports, just under the top of the table. Jared sprayed it to kill the wasps, then he and Walker opened it up, pulled out the wasp larvae, and dissected them to see what stage they were in. Ewww.
Having 3 tents came in handy on the rainy days. We used the space in the big tent to eat, and played cards for awhile one night.
Remember how I banned Walker from playing in the fire? He didn't believe that should include blowing on the fire to [supposedly] keep it from burning out. Hyrum was roasting a marshmallow for his S'mores, and Walker very helpfully blew ash all over it and everything else on the other side of the fire. It's a very good thing that the ground was still damp.
Overall, I'd say that the camping experience was a hit. Jared got a lot of good fishing time, and the kids came back absolutely filthy and sunburned.
My mother-in-law's family had a reunion this past Saturday- lots of fun and games. I was painting faces, so most of the time I had a paintbrush in my hands instead of a a camera.
We had Morgen's birthday celebration early because Jared's in AZ this week and will miss her actual birthday.
She got a drawing pad from Aunt Melinda. Jared found a fishing net just like his for Morgen to use on her bug-catching expeditions.
She also got a new bike:
Here's a picture of our front yard. We're renting for a year, to make sure Jared can handle the commute to SLC from Heber.
And I am *this* close to buying this rental house, just so I NEVER HAVE TO MOVE AGAIN. I hate packing.

**just got back from the ER- Walker cut his thumb on a rock. Yeah, I didn't believe him at first- how do you cut your thumb on a ROCK?!? But it was definitely deep enough to need stitches, so we drove quickly to the hospital, and 3 stitches later we're home and he's playing games with the family. Honestly, every SINGLE time Jared leaves town, we have some kind of emergency like this!

Gratitude List:
* We're down the street from the hospital, so the ER trip was quick without me breaking speed limits.
* We have insurance to cover this emergency.
* As far as emergencies go, this could have been MUCH worse.
* My in-laws are visiting, so they watched the other kids while I went to the ER.
* We have good food to eat, shelter, and Jared's job is secure.
* Through a major coincidence, I was able to get a phone number for my best friend from high school. I haven't talked with her in 10 years, and hearing her voice almost made me cry :)
* God is good. We are blessed.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Slow summer days

We celebrated Hyrum's birthday last week as a family, then invited extended family up for Sunday dinner. Here's Hyrum with his birthday plate.

The kids and I went to the Oquirrh [say it Oh-kur]Mountain Temple openhouse last week. My favorite part was seeing all the beautiful artwork and the kids liked the cookies they served after the openhouse the best. :)

And Sunday morning, Jared came into the bedroom looking for my camera. Here's why:

We're camping this weekend, so the rest of today and tomorrow will be spent planning meals, and packing clothes. :)

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Love the weather

Today [so far] it has been sunny and clear. Of course, we took a trip to the doctor for my allergy shots [his office is in the Salt Lake Valley] and it rained on the drive over. But since we got back, sunny and clear. LOL, I'm still getting used to all this rain! We live in a desert, after all. But, because we're high up in the mountains, we end up with rain almost every day. And the temperature is perfect- I'd say it's about 69 or 70 degrees outside IN THE SUN right now. Which means I can crack open my windows at night, but dare not widen the crack, lest I wake up with frost on my face.

Jared made it safely back from Texas yesterday. For a conference, it was unusually brief [2 days] and actually productive. Yes, I was shocked as well. I thought that there were laws against having productive conferences; especially government-run ones. LOL :)

I unpacked another box in my room. Whew! Only 59 million left to go.

At church last week I saw a familiar face, and wondered if we were related. Sure enough, I found out he's a cousin to my mother. Of course, moving to the town where my grandparents lived their whole married lives, I was expecting to meet a few relatives, but I'm excited that I actually recognized him! And, my next-door-neighbor is a cousin to my dad's nephew [my cousin]'s wife. My neighbor's mom, and my cousin's wife's mom, are sisters and they grew up in the same small town that my husband is from. Oh, this world keeps getting smaller and smaller! ** small break while we sing, "I'm my own grandpa" **

Took the kids to see "Up" Monday night. We all enjoyed it. Especially the bird, Kevin, who made us all laugh repeatedly.

Gratitude List:
* cars that work.
* a car repair bill that did not break our monthly budget.
* unpacking another box and getting the contents put away.
* walking to the park last night, and talking with my husband while the kids ran around.
* a sugar cone with 2 flavors of ice cream [both contained chocolate]
* watching a movie with my kids, and not worrying about bad language or inappropriate jokes.
* helium balloons!
* I found a recycling place in town :) so I feel not quite so bad about all the paper I shredded and now need to throw away.
* God is good. My life is good.
* homemade chocolate chip cookies.

Tuesday, June 09, 2009

Settling in

We have internet [can you tell I'm excited about that?], and library cards [big bonus for Walker, who wants to camp out at the library now], and some vegetable plants for our container garden. We thought about digging up the sod in one of the back corners of the yard. We even got permission to do this from our landlord. However, after looking at the soil, we realized it is mostly rocks. We would have to buy topsoil [not going to happen in a rental house], and build containers to hold the soil, in order to get any sort of a good garden. So, we decided to skip the 'pull grass up' step and the 'buy topsoil' step, and move directly to 'plant veggies in containers' step. I have 2 rooms with boxes: my room and the craft room. There are also a bunch of boxes in the basement, but that is what basements are for :) so I'm not too worried about that yet.

Gratitude List:
* fresh homemade wheat bread
* wheat grinder is out of storage and in use once more
* nice friendly neighborhood
* lots of friendly kids to play with mine
* cool sunny weather to play outside in
* water walls to protect my tomatoes from freezing temps. Our average 'last frost date' is June 1st.
* family get-togethers
* my children
* my husband
* my faith in God. He is good!
* internet access to friends, old and new, which helps me keep in touch.
* meditation time to mellow my temper. It isn't a miracle cure, but it helps so much.
* my health

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Good and Bad

We're all moved in now. Still need to unpack boxes, and decide where to put the contents, but I have internet again. Now to answer the 328 emails in my inbox.

My mom, sister, and 2 nieces drove up to visit us today. I was pretty excited to see all of them- especially my nieces, since last time I saw their family, Charlotte was still in utero :). My kids were thrilled to have cousins to play with, and I was talking with my sister, catching up on their lives, when we heard Rachael screaming from the backyard.

We'd put one of our dogs in the garage before they came, because she loves kids and will jump on them and lick them, which usually scares them. Our other dog was in her kennel, being quiet, so I thought we could leave her there. Big mistake- she wasn't feeling well, and bit Rachael's finger hard enough to draw blood. Jared took her to the vet to have her put down. This breaks my heart. She has been such a good dog, and biting like this is so out of character for her. At least Rachael's shots are up to date, so she won't need another one as a result of the bite.

Gratitude List:
* that Rachael is all right.
* there are a million girls on our new street, and they have all been over to play with my kids since Tuesday :)
* family visits, and a picnic in the backyard.
* books to read.
* our basement is sheetrocked and ready to go- we now have a bedroom for the boys as well as a storage area next to the laundry room.
* my husband's rockin' skills with sheetrock. He can do anything.
* an unpacked kitchen. There are boxes in every single room of our house, except that one. :) I need a little bit of order in my chaotic life.
* scriptures.
* God's grace.
* the "cooties" game as played by my niece and younger son. Very interesting rules a 3 and 5 year old will come up with.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Moving Day!

Okay, we're moving on Saturday [May 23], and I know I'll be unpacking for a few days after, so this is the official "I'm offline until sometime next week."

I need more boxes...

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Little Miracles

I'm still a bit in shock about how quickly our house sold. We prayed that the house would sell quickly, but left the timing in God's hands. We got an offer last Monday, countered with a higher price and later closing date. They countered with the same closing date but accepted the higher price. That means that after we pay closing costs, the realtor, and replace the money we used to buy new carpet and paint, we still make money. Really. And it's more than half of what we need to pay off Jared's remaining student loans. WOW.

The new owners want to move in before the end of May, so I was praying we could find a rental that had everything we needed [3 bedrooms, fenced yard big enough for dogs, garage, and storage space] in the time we had. I also had to work around Jared's TDY- he left today and will return late on May 22 [a Friday]. As of yesterday, we are the proud new renters of a 3-bedroom rambler with an unfinished basement [lots of storage space], and a fully grassed and fenced yard [and they had dogs, too, so the door to the garage has a doggie door installed in it]. Plus, the yard has a sprinkling system already installed [have to water grass 3+ times per week in the Utah desert], AND the owner told us we could dig up a corner of the grass in the backyard to plant our garden. How cool is that?!? Oh, and she will let us move in on the 23rd, which will give me a few days to clean up our old house before the new owners take possession.

I didn't really want to leave my neighbors and friends. My dream [in a perfect life] is to stay in one house until I die, getting to know neighbors and watching our kids grow up, get married, and bring their own kids back to 'the neighborhood.' But what I most want is to have a home filled with love and warmth, and I can move every 3-4 years to follow Jared's career, since he is an integral part of that loving home I'm working towards.

**I have our new address. You can email me [ jgailey4@hotmail.com ] and I'll send it to you :) but we won't actually be in the house for another 13 days.

Gratitude List:
* God knows me and loves me. Over and over, the events in my life speak this truth to me.
* Music, especially music that lightens my soul.
* Having easy access to that music through Itunes :)
* Good neighbors and friends who have come up to me quietly and offered their help in our move, even though they don't want us to go.
* Keeping a journal.
* Our house sold quickly :)and we found a rental that will meet all our needs.
* My husband goes out of his way to cherish me.
* Kids were good almost all day today.
* Time to play card games with my kids today.
* The beautiful tulips and irises growing outside my front door.
* Memories- good and bad, pleasant and painful- I am so grateful to have all these experiences as part of my life.

Sunday, May 03, 2009

Peace

**I have to preface this by stating that our trip home from Reno on Saturday was the shortest trip I have ever enjoyed along that road. Not that the distance or time was any less than at other times, but the quiet peacefulness [we had a book on cd we listened to the entire drive home] made it feel like a short journey instead of an 8-hour torture session.**

Now, I recently ran across this quote in my readings:

"There is a world cry for peace; everybody wants peace. In newspapers, magazines, books, [and] from the public platform come cries for peace. As far back as I can remember, there has never been such a worldwide appeal for peace among the children of men.

It is a curious commentary on human nature that men who cry for peace look upon peace as something that may be picked as an apple from a tree, something that lies about within easy reach of humanity. If I pick an apple from a tree, I have first planted the tree, cared for it, watered it, brought it to maturity. Then in due time I may have the fruit.

So with peace. It is not a thing by itself to be picked up casually; but it is the fruit of something precedent. Like the tree, something must be planted and nourished and cared for if we are to obtain peace."


:) I thought about writing a huge essay on how I feel about this quote, yada yada. But really? While I think it is a great reminder to ME to plant peaceful seeds, it may mean something different for you. So I'm going to move on to another subject.

Today in church Jared got to sit by me! Yep, last week he was released from his calling as first counselor to the bishop [he had to sit in front of the congregation for this]. I'm glad he accepted the call, and grateful that he worked hard in it. I'm also happy that he got to sit w/us in the congregation today. I've missed him. He's leaving next Sunday to attend a 3 week training course held in Pennsylvania. *sigh*

Here's a few pictures from our Reno trip:
We visited Animal Ark, and the kids LOVED seeing the animals and reading about them as well.

We visited the park, and the auto museum [lots of car pics I will spare you], and we officially celebrated Walker's 11th birthday on April 30. Just a few days late ;)

The ducks were a hit, as was watching kayak practice in the Truckee River. No pics of that- I was too busy watching. Also, no pics of the trip home.

Gratitude List:
* audiobooks that the kids are interested in listening to.
* sunny weather for the trip home.
* cake balls for everyone!
* our car had no troubles of any kind on the trip.
* family that let us visit, and entertained us as well.
* Jared can sit by me during church meetings again.
* gorgeous tulips in my front yard :)
* rainstorms that water my plants for me [like the storm that just blew in].
* Peace in my heart that is a gift from God.
* we're home again and back in our daily routine.
* some easy sewing projects to do with the kids.


Okay, so the source of the quote? A Norwegian immigrant to the United States; an educator, author, and academician, serving as president of Utah Agricultural College and the University of Utah. He was born in 1872, and died in 1952. He was also a religious man, serving as an Apostle in my church- the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. His name was John A. Widtsoe.

Friday, May 01, 2009

Vacation

This trip has been interesting. Some good, some bad, but all interesting. :)will post pics after I get home and upload them. For now, I am looking forward to the kids' fishing trip with Dad, Grandpa, and Uncle Jon.

Gratitude List:
* A good night's sleep
* A nice slow day yesterday- I did laundry and knit and read a book. Kids played w/my in-laws' enormous collection of legos.
* The "Quick After-Battle Triple Chocolate Cake" turned out well.
* Audio books. I used to avoid and delay car trips because of the fighting in the car [I know, mine are the only kids who do this]. Listening to books keeps them quiet and calm and WOW so much more fun to ride with!! Thanks to my MIL for the great suggestions: the idea, and the books to try.
* Cake balls. Yes, they are 'heavily addictive.' And I'm making them AFTER everybody goes fishing today.
* My mother's patience with me. There are so many skills that she taught me: cooking, cleaning, sewing, patience. I'm sorry I was a slow learner.
* daily meditation time. I notice the difference when I miss a day.
* hugs from kids- even the 'stealth' hugs [which always surprise and sometimes startle me]

Friday, April 24, 2009

Math with kids

1 Walker in living room, practicing piano
+ 1 Morgen in bedroom, sulking
+ 1 Hyrum outside, playing because he's finished his schoolwork
= 1 knocked-down "for sale" sign in the front yard with 2 weapons [sticks] lying on the ground next to it.

I wonder, who could be responsible?

"Hyrum! Come here, please!"

**Added to my super-deductive reasoning skills was this response**

"I know." [big sigh] "I'm in trouble."

1 Walker, still inside, now working on last math assignment
+ 1 Morgen, still in bedroom, still sulking
+ 1 Hyrum, now in bedroom, crying because he's in trouble [no punishment beyond the solitary confinement, just feeling terribly guilty, I guess]
= 1 fixed "for sale" sign in the front yard. 2 weapons now in backyard. I really should have thrown them in the garbage. Maybe tomorrow...

Walker's 11 years old now. Whew. Not a huge celebration- with Jared gone, we decided to do the big party/cake/presents thing next week while we're in Reno. But we did go out to eat w/some family, and the wait staff sang a Happy Birthday song to Walker ;) and we spent a few hours walking around Thanksgiving Point, admiring the gorgeous flowers- mostly tulips, since they're currently having the tulip festival- and watching my kids rough-house with their cousins. Last week we walked around the gardens w/Jon and Melinda, and this is what they looked like:

This week, there is a bit of a change in the temperature:

Does anybody have a bulldozer I could borrow? I think that this: would look perfect in my backyard right now.

Gratitude List:
* Jared will be home Sunday morning!
* texting him reminds me why I married him- great sense of humor ;)
* family in town
* playing games w/relatives
* hanging out and talking after dinner [except for Walker's repeated "can we GO now?!?" after his food was gone]
* sunny weather today after a forecast of heavy rain.
* scripture reading
* faith in God
* allergy shots so I can [hopefully] go camping this year

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Oh, the busyness

I have to say that the advent of spring [with no snow this week to dampen our spirits] has certainly cheered everybody in this house right up. We currently have a lawn in our backyard! It's some type of seasonal grass, and usually goes away in the summer, but always reappears in September. Weird, but pretty for now :)

Jared's in Idaho this week, saving the world one training manual at a time. His kids are currently: practicing their Tarzan yell from a tree in the backyard [Walker], picking grass to make a nest for an as-yet-unchosen animal [Morgen], and choosing some weapons [sticks] to chase his siblings with [Hyrum]. I really LOVE my backyard. Just add kids, and you have instant fun and games! Well, sometimes you get mud, too, but only if you're really, really lucky.

Did you know that my kids yell at each other? As in, *first name, middle name, last name*, this is my *unusual name for a house* and it has a *weird name for protection* to keep you *monster name* out!!! Yep. They yell at the dogs, too. I'm trying to decide if this means they are treating each other like pets, or the dogs like siblings...

Gratitude List:
* family visits- sorry about the sparse accommodations ;)
* more family visits this week
* another family visit next week [we'll be heading to see my in-laws]
* spring weather
* Library day!
* kids decided on their own to have a contest to see who could finish the most schoolwork before recess. Weird, but cool.
* I baked on Sunday- chocolate chip cookies. Mmmmm!
* Daily meditation time and the peace it spreads through my whole day.
* Jared's Idaho trip is only a week long.
* sunshine and blooming plants and HAPPINESS in my daily life today.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Easter

It's probably a deep psychological problem that causes my procrastination. Either that, or my short-term memory loss. Sunday last week somebody mentioned it being Palm Sunday, which meant I had one week to figure out what we were doing for Easter. It took me a few days, and an emergency shopping trip with a friend [thank you Rebecca!] but we did celebrate Easter this year.

Thursday the kids and I drove to 3 or 4 stores [memory's blurred, shopping with kids does that to me]. We ended up with 4 clay pots from Target's dollar spot, 3 6-packs of flowers to put in the pots, some potting soil, a pair of gardener's gloves [mine are either packed or lost- same thing at this point], and several toys to put on Myles' grave. Some of the toys may look familiar to you, if you own a dog. The big blue pretzel, for example. Or maybe the wacky-looking grey squeaky dog toy. :)It's all good- my dogs and my kids are great at sharing toys.

The kids pulled tags off the toys while I potted the flowers. Into each pot I put a white alyssum, a not-blooming-yet-but-soon-will-be-yellow snapdragon, and a pink-n-white dianthus. [and I actually remembered all the names- wow] We put the flowers and the toys out, then placed flowers on my grandparents' grave, my great-grandparents' grave, and on Laura May's grave as well. It was a beautiful sunny day, perfect for planting flowers. The extra plants went into our front flower bed.

Friday, Rebecca and I went looking for Easter presents. I knew I wanted to get "Bohnanza" [it's a card game], but I was also looking for easter outfits, and some other last-minute supplies for dying eggs. We ended up at Walmart [home of the great deal], and here are my children in their outfits:

I love that, on Easter, we celebrate how Jesus Christ broke the bands of death, making it possible to live again. I love the reminder that death is not the end. I'm glad that God loves me enough to want me with him always. I am trying to enjoy my life right now, with all of the messiness that it includes.

Gratitude List:

* fudge :)
* friends who will buy fudge with me so I don't have to eat it alone.
* Easter
* Easter egg hunts [no pictures, but I was glad we did it]
* my daffodils are beautiful
* green grass
* meditation time makes me much more mellow
* feeling God's grace in my life
* this video:

Wednesday, April 08, 2009

No snow

for two days now, and now that I've pointed that out it will probably snow tonight, ruining my spring yet again. But, some of my crocuses are still blooming- their little purple heads are drooping and yet they haven't given up. The daffodils are budding all over my front flower beds, and I am excited to see them open soon.

Just to keep some economic perspective, here are some stats:

2009
8% unemployment rate
4.5 % interest rate

27 years ago, in 1982:
12% unemployment rate
17% interest rate

So, seriously? I'm thinking that the less TV/Radio "news" I listen to, the more optimistic I feel. Because I can look at the stats and see for myself that it really isn't as bad as CNN claims. I mean honestly, we aren't even CLOSE to 30% unemployment, which was what the stats were in the 1930's, during the Great Depression.

And on to more important [:) at least in my life] things: Hyrum finished his reading workbook [goodbye Little Critter, we will miss your stories about lost kittens and naughty puppies]. He is reading out of the beginning books that my mom gave me, and needs very little help with the words. This is a good thing, as we are reading words like "garden" and "four furry feet" instead of "max sat on a mat." So his reading practice now consists of 3 of these little readers a day. I also ordered cursive writing workbooks for Morgen, which she's added to her school schedule, and math workbooks for Hyrum, also now in his school schedule. Depending on how quickly we finish up Walker's math [currently about 50 lessons/tests left], we should be finished by the end of May. :0

Gratitude List:
* good weather
* treats ;)
* outside walking
* text messaging my husband, just because I can
* knitting projects
* peace in the house
* hope is slowly creeping into my soul
* podcasts to keep me optimistic
* good books, especially Good Books [scriptures]
* my family
* my friends
* we finished school with no complaints and excitement about new workbooks.